In all of those stereotypical movies, cheerleaders are always characterized as the bully but what people don't understand is cheerleaders are probably the most bullied and picked up people at their schools. It doesn't matter how much their school loves and appreciates them there will always be that group of people who frown upon them as a whole or as individuals. They constantly have a negative thought to add or a rude comment to say either towards the cheerleaders or behind their backs. So as a cheerleader, how do we deal with these bullies? |
| Picture from Etsy.com (click the link purchase the bow...if you want) #1 Ignore Them I know it sounds super cliché but a reaction is what your tormentor wants and the moment you begin to backlash and said equally rude things about them you're not better then them. By ignoring them you put yourself at an advantage because it just makes them look bad for being so cruel to someone who isn't directly doing anything to them. #2 Finish What They Started A lot of people are under the impression that by telling someone like a parent, coach, or teacher that you will like a weak person who can't handle their own problems but when I situation gets out of hand or even to the point when your don't feel safe or comfortable in a school environment its time to stop being silenced and tell someone what's been going on. #3 Be Prepared The truth is you just have to be prepared for whatever the bully towards at you and not give them the satisfaction that they hurt you. In all honesty you will lose people and gain people. You will say goodbye to people who you thought were friends and hello to those who are willing to stick by you even with all of your "problems" included. No one deserves to be bullied. It doesn't matter how "slutty" the person is, how "annoying" the person is, how "two-faced" the person is. It doesn't matter because if the bully is so focused on not being like that person, the minute they start the torment they became everything they didn't like about that person and more. Cheerleaders get bullied too, everyone does, but just because we're cheerleaders and we expect the hate doesn't mean we have to stay quiet and take it. Love, A Cheerleader |
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| Picture from OLIVECOCOMAG.COM #1 Warm Up Pants
Whether they're from VSPink, Target, Walmart, Aerie, etc. etc. Any cheerleader will be glad to receive a pair of nice warm sweatpants for those long practices they'll be having in late winter after Christmas. Make sure you get them in the right length so that they can dance, jump, stunt, and flip around in them without tripping.
 #2 Basic Makeup Now that your cheerleader doesn't have to get all dolled up by putting on glittery and bold makeup. Now they can focus on more basic and natural looks. It might be a good idea to invest in newer makeup such as browns, light pinks, and soft golds. Sephora, Target, and other drug stores cover goodies like these which can also make good stocking stuffers!  #3 Nfinity Cheer Shoes Since football season is over your cheerleader's shoes might be a little worn out and not ready for comp and basketball season. Get the brand that I personally love and think will last: Nfinity.  #4 Etsy Giftcard It may sound silly but it won't when your cheerleader sees all of those bows that she could use the card for. Trust me when I say there's tons of cute options your cheerleader will love so Etsy is the right choice! (Disclaimer: All photos from Google Image Search) I hope this helps you either fill out your Christmas list or help your parents help fill up the tree! Let's make this a merry Christmas! Love, A Cheerleader |
You might be a senior, a junior, a sophomore, or even a freshman in high school but it's never too early to wonder where your cheer career might lead to. Many people fall in the love with sport and want to continue taking part in it, and for others it's a fun pass time to make new friends and stay active. Here's some things to consider if you're thinking of joining a college cheer team.
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| Picture from Google Image Search #1 Put in the Work If you're in high school you might not have as much performing or tumbling experience as a girl who has been a part of a level 6 or co-ed all star team, but that just means you need to put in the work to level out the playing field. Most college's cheerleading teams are co-ed which means it's mixed genders on the mat and field. Most of the cheerleading stunts consists of partner stunts, so if you're unfamiliar with this type of stunting it's not too late to start going to co-ed stunt classes at your local cheer gym. You can call your local cheer and get more info and limitations and what to expect if you're a newbee. If tumbling isn't your strongest point maybe you should try going to more classes a week if it fits your schedule and budget. Most colleges require round off/standing back handspring, standing tuck, and 3 to tuck. This might take some time to master so it's best to get started. #2 Save the Date If there's a certain college you've applied for and are hoping to be accepted to start researching their cheerleading team and find clinics or the actual tryout date. Most colleges have clinics for high schoolers who are interested in being apart of their squad in the future. Clinics consist of stunting practice, tumbling, mock tryouts, etc. You can also contact the coach and ask any necessary questions you might have. #3 Be 100% Positive Before you go overboard with classes and clinics be sure you know what you want so you can put all of your time into pursuing this as a future pass by/sport. Make sure you will continue to love cheer and will be able to progress and make it to your goal. While you're doing this though, don't lose track of what's important: SCHOOL. In order to be a college cheerleader you have be in college, so keep your G.P.A up and make sure to study hard for SAT! Good luck! Love, A Cheerleader |
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| Picture from Google Image Search #1 Fundraisers Now that your squad isn't so busy with football and pep rallies you'll have more time raise money for the fun things your squad wants to take part in. You can hold a few more car washes before it gets too cold. You can have a candy fundraiser, etc. etc. Get creative and make some extra cash to add to your program's budget. #2 Charity Work It's the season of giving, so why not give? Take part in a few local charity events or even start your own like a food or toy drive at your school or local grocery store. Every little thing counts to those with not much. (more info in article coming soon) #3 Christmas Partners For the next holiday assembly include some of the boys. Have the Varsity girls dance with Basketball or Wrestling. This might take a while and a lot of practice since they all seem to have two left feet! :) There's some much your squad can take part in, even if it's just performing for a nearby elementary school. Take part in community fun this season! Love, A Cheerleader |
Now that football season is coming to a close, cheer teams usually have more time to learn how to tumble and take squad tumbling classes at local gyms. Here's a few things to expect when starting your first tumbling class cheerleader or not.
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| Picture from Google Image Search #1 Attire Coming to tumbling you should wear comfortable clothes you can well, flip around in.
#2 Listen to Instruction When the coach is talking make to sure to pay attention so you can learn on the right speed. Don't assume just because you watch a couple youtube tutorials you know what's best. You paid to learn so you might as well with a safe coach and nice floors. #3 Don't Get Flustered You're not gonna know everything the minute you get there and you most likely won't be able to throw you bhs after one class. Be patient and tryyour best. Don't get all flustered if you're not at the same level as the other girls or your teammates. Love, A Cheerleader |
Homecoming is happening all around and those memorable games are always super fun. Here's a few hair styles to pair with your head wreaths in all of those pictures you'll be taking!
#1 Curled Hair
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| Picture from Google Image Search The best way to get spiral and thick curls is to use a Wand. Star by clicking the top half of your hair up (depending on the thickness of your hair) and then spray heat protector on the bottom half. Curl hair on to wand by twirling hair onto the wand inward and hold for as long as you desire. Pull up on the wand to get the hair off the wand and hold up the curled hair for a second or two. When you're done with the bottom half do this to the top until of the hair is curled and ready! #2 Beach Waves |
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| Picture from Google Image Search Take a shower and then braid your damp hair. In the morning scrunch up hair and then use a regular curling iron to curl your hair in large portions. The curls should fall out throughout the day but still keep that edgy wavy look. #Straight Hair |
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| Picture from Google Image Search This one is easy to master. Add heat spray and a good straightener and you got your perfect straightener look! Hope you like these hairstyles! Love, A Cheerleader |
I believe that squads should bond with each other at least once a month and as every month goes by so does a new season. So as for October it's all about Halloween and all of it's blood, gore, and of course....pumpkins! Here's some great team bonding ideas your squad can take part in during October!
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| Picture from Google Image Search It might seem lame but trust me, all of you guys in one room wrapped in blankets scared out of your mind can be good for some laughs and some good memories. Most of the time squads don't even end up watching the whole movie because they end up talking, joking, and laughing. It's just a good excuse to get together and hang out! #2 Pumpkin Patch |
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| Picture from Google Image Search Your squad can get together and have a great time at a local pumpkin patch. My own squad is planning a team bonding for all of us to get together and pick out pumpkins for the girls on the other squads (like jv or freshman), so that we can decorate them and leave them on their steps as presents. It's also really fun to go on some of the attractions and take lots of pictures. #3 Haunted Attractions |
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| Picture from Google Image Search It's always fun to be a little scared every once and a while and there's tons of places around the globe where this is a possibility. You can research around to see if there's any haunted houses and haunted hospitals around (that are legal to go into, haha). There's also amusement parks to go to like Universal Studios and Knott's Scary Farm. #4 Costume Exploring |
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| Picture from Google Image Search With Halloween soon there is probably some parties going on, your squad can get together and help each pick out or even made costumes for each. It's always fun to shop so why not make it a team bonding! I hope all of these ideas seem to fit your team's needs when it comes to bonding! Thanks for reading! Love, A Cheerleader |
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| Picture from Pomexpress.com These are so cute and even when the colors seem off with your uniform, they always look really cute. There are tons of places to get a pair of these very pink pom poms! Click here to look around! #2 Pink Bows |
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| Picture from Powerbows.com Although there's only 4 games in the month of October it's always fun to have a bunch of different bright, light, sparkly pink bows for the games. Here's a place to choose a few. Click here. #3 Socks  Picture from Google Image Search These can be super cute with your dress out clothes during the week in order to show some awareness even out of your uniform. Check out this store for me options! Click here. There you have it. A few simple ideas on spreading breast cancer awareness. Also make sure to check out events going on around your school like fundraisers or assemblies. You can also look up things around your community like the Susan G. Komen walks that usually happy around this time. Check involved and spread the word! Love, A Cheerleader |
