Advice to the Overruling Teammate:
Tone it down and allow your captain to do their job. If there's a serious problem between your squad and your captain sit down with your captain and coach and talk. If you're not comfortable doing this ask the coach to have all team members write on a piece of paper about how they feel about the squad. Not about the captain, and not reasons why the captain is good or bad because this can cause bigger conflict! Try being more respectful of your captain because your coach or squad chose them for a reason. If there's ongoing issues take it up with your coach but overall you are probably the source of all major issues. Just trust your captain and attempt to get along.
I hope both of these tips help your squad! Having a conflict like this can be stressful but dealing with it in a reasonable way is the best way to go!
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Love,
A Cheerleader
I'm a Captain for my Junior High Team and a few of the other girls argue with every word that comes out of my mouth !! Ugh! I'll take your advice and tlk to them though:)
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